Why are you stuck in a particular pattern, no matter how much it pisses you off? Tires you out? Depletes you?
We all are creatures of habits. Patterns we keep repeating are sometimes the ones we created, sometimes generational.
Breaking them is not that hard once we can identify them - and especially when you know WHY they exist to begin with.
But here is the kicker:
When you try to be nice to someone, and they take advantage of you, and you get upset...
When you try so hard to break through on the next income level, and everyone encourages you, but you miss it again and again...
When you desire so hard to stand up to yourself, and you already know what you'll say to them, but then you remain silent...
When you plan to launch your next program, and have all the strategies in place, but keep procrastinate on it...
You're feeding your ego. You are feeding your mind that is simply taking the road of least pain and least resistance.
Because underneath it all - there is a benefit for you.
You get something out of this agony, anger, pain, disappointment that to your mind, it's still more acceptable than what you're going through...
See, here's where people tend to get stuck.
They quit. They settle.
What about you?
Do you want to know how YOU control your mind? Yes! You choose how to react. You create the outcome.
And, are you willing to take the ownership for your decisions - you know that if you choose A then you cannot bitch and complain about not having B?
Did you know that at any moment, you can change your mind, you can reframe it all, and you can recreate your future?
See, THAT is the work that 99% of people refuse to do.
Because many times, it's not measurable. It requires you to face your demons. To dance with fear. To choose to move right through it.
To leave your comfort zone.
So, are you that 1%, ready to know that once you're through, you'll be free?
Are you ready to embody the next version of you where there will not be any of the crap you are tolerating right now?
But be warned - you will face this decision again, whether to settle, or to keep going, growing, expanding, elevating...
...even when the gremlins come out again.
You've heard it before - new level new devil?
Yes, it's like peeling an onion - the work is never done. With bigger goals, the fears and resistance grow proportionally.
But you know what?
Those gremlins...they are just cute fluffy little dears that you get to love on for protecting you.
And the vision you hold in your mind’s eye to show your subconscious exactly what’s on the “other side”?
It’s not so scary at all! You have already done it!
Because you cannot envision it, you can not dream it if you have no capacity to make it happen...
So it's all up to you.
Will you allow the self-doubt, the stories you were told about who you are, how to be, how to behave, how to feel (or not feel) get in your way?
Will you allow the mistakes from the past, investments that didn't work out, relationships that failed, stop you?
Will you let the hardship, burnout, exhaustion from working hard but not smart, from wearing the hustle like a badge of honor, stop you?
Will you let the years of pretending to be someone you’re not, living by someone else’s expectations, breakdowns on the bathroom floors behind the closed doors, reducing yourself to a handful of boxes and labels go to waste?
I dare to say this on your behalf: “Of course not!”
You're smarter than that. You're driven, tenacious, persistent. Passionate.
Hard work is in your DNA.
Now, let me clear something up. Ease, alignment, amazing life...
...It's not about sitting on a beach, sipping Mai Tai-s and doing nothing. Nor sitting in a corner singing kumbaya.
It's about honoring yourself for who you are. Honoring your brilliance, zone of genius. It's about creating flow. Living on purpose. With integrity.
(On every level, in every aspect of your life and business: relationships, partnership, sex, parenthood, health, body, mind, soul; business model, strategies, marketing tactics, sales, management, team building, client work,...)